Ladies, have you ever had a man who is only nice to you when he needs something? Do you have a man that you know is not faithful, or a liar, yet you hope that one day he will come around to being the man you want him to be? Do you have a man who is physically, verbally or mentally abusive to you and tells you that it's YOUR fault he behaves this way because he "LOVES" you?
It's time to pay attention to the signs. Maya Angelou said it best when she said, “The first time someone shows you who they are, believe them.” I know that as women we have a tendency to want to fix and save people. When you have a man who victimizes women, he will use you until he uses you up and then move on to the next person to victimize. But guess what? That victim does not have to be you.
I understand that there are also women who victimize men. No one deserves to be used. All relationships should be built on mutual love and respect. I say it in most of my posts and I will say it again . . . YOU DESERVE THE BEST!
Take a look at your relationship and honestly determine if your mate is in it for the right reasons. Ask God for wisdom. Value yourself.
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